Pre-Marital Mentoring

At our Cedar Valley wedding venue, we are committed to not only hosting beautiful weddings but also fostering strong and successful marriages. That's why we offer complimentary pre-marital mentoring sessions included in all our packages. With over 15 years of experience in pre-marital counseling, my wife and I are dedicated to helping couples build a solid foundation for their life together.

Our pre-marital mentoring program consists of four one-hour sessions. To ensure that couples have ample time to complete these sessions before their wedding, we require that the venue be paid for at least 8 weeks in advance. This timeframe allows us to schedule and conduct the four sessions, covering important topics that are crucial for a healthy and thriving marriage.

Session 1: Communication

  • Understanding the importance of effective communication in a relationship.
  • Learning active listening techniques to enhance understanding and empathy.
  • Practicing assertiveness and expressing needs and concerns constructively.
  • Exploring different communication styles and how they impact interactions.
  • Developing communication strategies for handling difficult conversations.

Session 2: Conflict Resolution

  • Identifying common sources of conflict in relationships.
  • Learning strategies for de-escalating conflicts and finding common ground.
  • Practicing active problem-solving techniques to address disagreements.
  • Understanding the role of compromise and negotiation in resolving conflicts.
  • Building conflict resolution skills that promote harmony and understanding.

Session 3: Financial Management

  • Discussing financial goals and values as a couple.
  • Creating a budget and developing a plan for managing finances together.
  • Exploring different approaches to saving, investing, and debt management.
  • Understanding the impact of financial decisions on the relationship.
  • Developing communication and teamwork skills for financial success.

Session 4: Spiritual Beliefs

  • Sharing and discussing individual spiritual beliefs and values.
  • Exploring how spiritual beliefs can influence a relationship.
  • Learning to respect and appreciate each other's spiritual perspectives.
  • Discussing how to incorporate spirituality into daily life as a couple.
  • Reflecting on the role of spirituality in building a strong and meaningful relationship.

It's our heart and desire to see couples not only have a memorable wedding day but also embark on a journey of love, understanding, and lifelong commitment. Through our complimentary pre-marital mentoring, we aim to equip couples with the tools and insights they need to navigate challenges and cherish each other for years to come.